Finding people
Finding someone you met during a hospital stay
Hospitals produce some of the most intense short relationships people ever have, and almost no way to follow up. Staff can't give out details, and patients rarely exchange them. A memory is often all that's left.
Describe the ward and the routine
The ward, the shift pattern, the season, the machine that never worked, the view from the window. People who were there describe those things the same way.
Be careful with health detail
Write about the encounter, not anyone's medical history. Don't include another person's diagnosis, treatment or anything that would identify them to a stranger.
If they were staff, say thank you plainly
Most people in this situation want to finish a sentence they never got to say. One clear line does more than a long story.
What noknokk can do
- Match on place, period and shared routine
- Remove contact details and obvious identifiers automatically
- Keep the whole thing private until both people agree
What it can't
- Contact a hospital or access any patient or staff information
- Handle urgent or clinical matters — speak to the hospital directly
- Confirm that someone is who they say they are
What to write down
- 1. The hospital or ward, and roughly when
- 2. Whether they were staff, another patient, or a visitor
- 3. The moment that stayed with you
- 4. What you'd want to say to them now
How your privacy works here
Read the full safety rulesNobody sees your name until you both say yes
Identity, photo and contact stay sealed on both sides until each of you accepts.
No DNA, no records, no people-search
We hold no birth, adoption or care files and buy no data. Only what people choose to write.
A permanent do-not-contact switch
Turn it on and you stop appearing to anyone, in both directions, for good.
No public profiles
There is nothing to browse about you — only the memory you chose to post.
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